If they can't stand to watch your success tell them to look away
Dealing with envy from others
time someone succeeds at something there is always that one person in
the corner turning green at the fact that you are finally where you want
to be in life, IGNORE THEM AT ALL COSTS. The type of
person who spends anytime at all worrying about what YOU are doing in
your life and only has negative things to say about it instead of think
about whats going on in their own life is probably better off being kept
from your presence.
with envy is never cool but at the end of the day personal happiness is
important and anyone who is not happy about you being happy honestly
needs to go.
Nothing is perfect and as such within every relationship there will always be some type of conflict, but what is truly important at the end of the day is the eagerness to resolve the problems that are present for the sake of the relationship.
There are indeed two sides to every emotion. If you reward your lovers positive attitude with gratitude, they will present that same feeling again to you (and if they don't they are definitely not the *one*). Showing others who one really is without exaggeration or deception is paramount in any good relationship.
People like this will slowly drain you of the energy it takes to make a relationship work, (and lord knows it takes a lot of time and effort to make them work) its just not possible for a relationship to be in a good place if the significant other is constantly draining you with issues and constant complaints, fact is this type of lover won't stop until you and the relationship have completely run dry. Never give people permission to suck you dry, make it known that such actions are unacceptable and you will not stand for it.