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Attaining Realistic Goals While in a Relationship

Attaining Realistic Goals While in a Relationship
When heading into a potential long term relationship one of  the first steps is to set aside some time to think about mutual goals and put them into writing. It may be helpful to do this together so both parties can reflect on each others true desires for the long term.

Sometimes it can be tempting to set to many unrealistic goals that end up going nowhere and lose sight of the big picture which is a long lasting love.

Both of your goals should ultimately lead to the betterment of your relationship and life as a whole. 

Setting realistic goals in love is often a balancing act of sorts, as it requires one to have the ability to attain these goals while still being able to keep a healthy relationship maintained. 


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