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Secrets and Lies have No Place in a Real Relationship

Secrets and Lies have No Place in a Real Relationship
Secrets and lies will eventually destroy a relationship as they tend to build up until they can no longer be contained. Being with someone that truly loves every part of you, there is really no need for any secrets nor lies in any healthy relationship because they should have a foundation of mutual trust. One may be able to get over some lies, but tend to have a type snowball effect and lead bigger ones before its all said and done so its best to just be honest, while having secrets just says that one does not trust their partner with the whole truth...(trust is either 0% or 100% a person cannot trust somebody 50% of the time and expect the relationship to prosper). Love simply doesn't need these two things around it as it tends to be counter productive to happiness in the relationship.


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